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LET IT GO BY T. D JAKES. A MUST READ

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LET THEM GO! BY BISHOP T.D. JAKES....
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There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk.

I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone. When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

The Bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]

People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.

Let them go.

And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.

You've got to know when it's dead.

You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.

Let them go!!

If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains . . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If someone has angered you . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents . . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you have a bad attitude . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help themselves . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you're feeling depressed and stressed . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying "take your hands off of it," then you need to . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

Let the past be the past Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new thing for 2007!!!

LET IT GO!!!

Get Right or Get Left. think about it, and then . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

"The Battle is the Lord's!"
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kgmoagi
thank you for the powerful words of inpiration,God help me to let go of the former things and focus on the future ahead of me.Glory be to god.
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Luu
thank you I needed to hear this for me to let go of my past relationship and this anger and jeaulosy that I have.....I won't lie its not easy only time will heal me.
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BlueDolphink   in reply to Elijahk
Thank U. It was a great way to start my morning @ work.
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Elijahk   in reply to BlueDolphink
God is heard your cry, Read Psalms 40
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SisterServant   in reply to Revive2014
Go to my public page and scroll down. You will see many that go all the way back to November, 2013. That is when I came to this website.

These questions are ones that you may ask yourself over and over. God will help you work out the answers. You are already on the right path.
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Revive2014   in reply to SisterServant
Amen! Thank you for such good advice.
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Revive2014   in reply to SisterServant
Thank you so much and I will start a journal today and answer the questions you suggested. Where do I find your prayers?
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SisterServant   in reply to Revive2014
Loving yourself mentally includes making choices that are good for you. It sounds as though you have started with the weight loss plan and your clean eating habits. Can you start a journal and write about yourself? What do you like about yourself? What are some of your good qualities? Are you grateful that God has given them to you?

Loving yourself mentally means understanding that God loves you and will help you. It also involves trusting in the relationship that you and God are establishing. Do you talk to God everyday? If so, ask for guidance and wisdom. He will help you in your journey.

Recently losing 27 pounds is a huge step and something to be grateful for. You could not have done this without the mental strength to follow through.

What do you see when you look in the mirror? Do you talk to that part of yourself that wants to be healthy and whole. You must understand that you are God's beloved child and worthy of the best.
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Revive2014   in reply to SisterServant
I am so confused about what people mean about loving yourself. I know about the physical part, I am on a weight loss journey and clean eating have recently lost 27 pounds, but loving myself mentally, can you explain it more to me.
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Revive2014   in reply to The Christmas Cat
Thank you that advice was for me too!
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Revive2014   in reply to Lil mommq
I understand going through same thing.
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SisterServant   in reply to Revive2014
Yes and if you concentrate on God, He will give you the desires of your heart. You will not need to try and force something with the wrong person. Focus on loving yourself and asking God to guide you in the right direction. He is able.
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Revive2014
Oh my God this was right on time. I am trying to hold on to a relationship. I can tell he is not feeling me like I am him. He was married when we started dating again and now he is separated and we started living together now I had to relocate to another city. He came up to spend a week with me and he only stayed online talking to other women and was not paying me any attention. He said before he left that he had to love himself before he showed me any love. Its been 7 years. I am in a new state all by myself, family and friends are not here, I am single and in my 50s, maybe I am just lonely and do not want to let go. My sons don't call I just need to let go and concentrate on my relationship with God.
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littlelacie   in reply to BlueDolphink
You are very welcome.
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BlueDolphink   in reply to littlelacie
Thank u 4 ur response.
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BlueDolphink   in reply to littlelacie
Thank U 4 ur response.


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littlelacie   in reply to BlueDolphink
Remember, you still have the most important,the most precious,the most wonderful person in the world, your sweet little boy. He and our Lord can help you through it all,always.
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BlueDolphink
Thank U.. It's hard 2 be seperated by my husband. i have a 4 year old boy. He left me for alcohol and another woman. And i left him that day i saw him w/her. it breaks my heart! But praying and trusting God is giving me courage and hope that
i can overcome. Please pray for me..
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LifeisGood   in reply to Tip32
Tip32, you are not alone even though it feels that way. I have been there; can't eat, can't sleep, when morning comes and you open your eyes it seems like a dream until your heart sinks once you realize this is really happening. TRUST AND BELIEVE ME when I tell you even though it hurts YOU WILL NOT DIE from this! At some point you have to love yourself enough to know you ARE worth more than allowing someone to disrespect you and STEAL your joy. I journal ed my feelings. I wrote out what I wanted for myself in my life and then I tried to occupy my time by accomplishing each thing one by one. Laugh with your children, go to the park, walk. Watch and listen to people or music that will uplift you. KEEP A GRATITUDE JOURNAL. Be thankful you are alive your children are healthy and pray throughout the day for peace of mind and guidance. GOD is with you even though he seems far away!
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Tammy's Sister
He let her go...
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