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LET IT GO BY T. D JAKES. A MUST READ

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LET THEM GO! BY BISHOP T.D. JAKES....
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There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk.

I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone. When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.

The Bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]

People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.

Let them go.

And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.

You've got to know when it's dead.

You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.

Let them go!!

If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to past hurts and pains . . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If someone has angered you . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents . . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you have a bad attitude . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help themselves . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If you're feeling depressed and stressed . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying "take your hands off of it," then you need to . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

Let the past be the past Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new thing for 2007!!!

LET IT GO!!!

Get Right or Get Left. think about it, and then . . . . . . . .

LET IT GO!!!

"The Battle is the Lord's!"
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TNL   in reply to sithuba
Just pray and ask god to lead you in the right direction. He is the one to guide your steps.ive gone through so much and realized that I have to step back and let god handle it
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sithuba   in reply to TNL
Same situation
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sithuba
Can you help me. Am confused about who to marry.
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SisterServant   in reply to TNL
Be patient and never forget, no matter what is going on that God loves you. Keep talking to God everyday and He will show you the way and bless you with more than you expect. It takes a lot for us to let go, but once we do and learn to trust God, things improve. This has been my experience. It took me forever to let go, but finally I got it! It is about trust.
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TNL   in reply to SisterServant
Thanks for the encouraging words! I know that all things work together for good for those who love The Lord.. Only he knows so I am learning to let go and let god. I have to take the back seat and let him lead
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SisterServant   in reply to TNL
Keep trusting God and keep thanking Him every day (for small and big things)and you will see how much better your life will become. God will continue to show you His Love. God is full of surprise. It took me a while to learn this, but I am so glad that I did.
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bunny47
Wow! I just read this for the first time. Powerful msg. I'll have to mark this in the Bible and reread it again and again. This is a tough one for me. My mind replays the past over and over. Like a bad tape on rewind and it's mainly the bad part. I don't know why. I love where I am physically. The state, my house, etc. I am re-building. I am making new friends. God is in control. Yet, the pain is still there. The memories crash through. This is a tough one. I needed this today. I am glad I found it. Please pray for me to Let It Go!
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TNL   in reply to littlelacie
Thank you! That is so true .. I just always try to remind myself that there is people out there that go through way worse and to be thankful for everything that I do have and not put so much focus on what I don't and to trust god!
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littlelacie   in reply to TNL
We have all been through that. I don't know why men have to be that way. You have a wonderful sweet little person that is more precious than all the men in the world.He is healthy and safe and you are the center of his world. Don't let some man decide if you are going to feel bad today. Phooey!! Don't let him steal more joy.
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TNL   in reply to LifeisGood
Your post means a lot to me! Even though it wasn't meant for me I can def relate
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TNL
This really is inspirational I am having a hard time letting go of someone and it's difficult because there is a child involved I have let this person manipulate me and steal my joy.. Looking back I feel like I loved him more than I loved myself I know i deserve better but I am blinded for my deep love for him it's can be frustrating to know that someone left you for another person and that seem so happy not losing sleep but I have many nights where I lay awake.. I know I have to get through this.. I have a son I need to be strong for.. But I feel like I'm at a loss..I am deeply saddened by this
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SisterServant   in reply to Candyh
God bless you Candyh.

May the spirit of Jesus' love fill your heart and bring you blessings in the new year. Keep talking to God everyday and you will experience new life.
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Candyh
I read this every time I think too much about painful situations and I helps me letting go.
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kgmoagi
thank you for the powerful words of inpiration,God help me to let go of the former things and focus on the future ahead of me.Glory be to god.
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Luu
thank you I needed to hear this for me to let go of my past relationship and this anger and jeaulosy that I have.....I won't lie its not easy only time will heal me.
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BlueDolphink   in reply to Elijahk
Thank U. It was a great way to start my morning @ work.
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Elijahk   in reply to BlueDolphink
God is heard your cry, Read Psalms 40
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SisterServant   in reply to Revive2014
Go to my public page and scroll down. You will see many that go all the way back to November, 2013. That is when I came to this website.

These questions are ones that you may ask yourself over and over. God will help you work out the answers. You are already on the right path.
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Revive2014   in reply to SisterServant
Amen! Thank you for such good advice.
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Revive2014   in reply to SisterServant
Thank you so much and I will start a journal today and answer the questions you suggested. Where do I find your prayers?
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